Meet Elaine Harvey: Your Baby Sleep Consultant

People often ask me why I do what I do?

The truth is, it started long before I became a mother. Long before I called myself a sleep consultant. It started with a quiet, powerful decision I made as a young woman:

I was going to be the mother I never had.

I didn’t grow up in a nurturing, connected home. My relationship with my own mother was… complicated, to say the least. And as early as I can remember, I knew I wanted to rewrite that story. I wanted to create something different—something softer, safer, and deeply loving.

So I began learning. Watching. Caring.

I worked with babies as a nanny, then as a maternity nurse—sometimes around the clock, six days a week—supporting families through the raw, beautiful, exhausting early months. And every time I held a baby close, or helped a mother exhale, I felt it:

This. This is what I was meant to do.

From Personal Healing to Professional Support

What started as a calling turned into a career. I created Lullababy SOS to be more than a sleep service—it’s a space where exhausted parents feel seen, supported, and held.

Because I know what it’s like to feel overwhelmed and unsure.

I know what it’s like to carry the weight of wanting to do better.

And I know what it takes to build something different, from scratch, with love.

So when you work with me, I don’t just give you a plan.

I offer you what I once needed: understanding, strategy, and hope.

A Holistic, Attachment-Based Approach That Actually Works

At Lullababy SOS, we don’t “fix” babies. We support families.

Yes, we’ll talk about naps and wake windows. But we’ll also talk about what’s going on in you—your fears, your questions, your strengths. Because when a parent feels supported, a baby feels safe. And that’s where real change begins.

We build your baby’s sleep on five pillars:

• • Routine – rhythm, not rigidity

• • Transitions – supporting shifts through the day and night

• • Nutrition – fuel that supports sleep and growth

• • Connection – the heartbeat of your parenting

• • Support, not Rescue – Supporting your child’s natural learning and emotion through change, not controlling or replacing one negative sleep association with another. This is at the heart of true co-regulation

• • Sleep – the beautiful outcome of everything working in sync.

This isn’t Cry-It-Out. This is Come-As-You-Are. Understanding the WHY behind the HOW is what truly helps you guide your child and feel more confident in your parenting journey.

And together, we create something sustainable.

If It Feels Like You’re Carrying the World—You’re Not Alone

Babies are born needing our help to sleep. But if they’re always rocked, fed, or bounced to sleep, they expect those same conditions when they wake. It’s like you falling asleep in bed and waking up on the lawn. Confusing, disorienting, and definitely not restful.

That’s why we gently guide babies to fall asleep where they’ll stay asleep, with gradual, loving change and support through the process, never leaving them to cry alone.

And when the tears come (because change is hard), I’ll help you understand what’s underneath them. There may be confusion, frustration and tiredness, but through this process, you will hold space for your child’s emotions through the changes, not leave them to feel alone, stressed, and abandoned. You’ll support your baby in a way that teaches them:

“You’re safe. I’m here. You can do this.”

What’s Included in Every Consultation

• • A Lullababy SOS Handbook Specific to Your Childs Age and Developmental Stage – Everything you need, from settling techniques to sample routines and real-life tips

• • 3 Weeks of Personalised Support – Im here for you with unlimited check-ins, diary reviews, and calls and or voice note coaching (fair use policy applies)

• • A Plan That Feels Right – Tailored to your baby’s personality, your parenting style, and your life

Because you deserve more than a sleep schedule.

You deserve a strategy that feels right for your family, heals your heart and helps you thrive not just survive your parenting journey, because when you feel heard, supported and confident, your family and child feels calmer safer and more connected.

You Were Never Meant to Do This Alone

Parenting is hard enough without being told you’re doing it wrong.

You don’t need to be stricter, tougher, or more “consistent.”

You need someone in your corner who sees you, who listens, and who knows how to help you make sustainable changes with gentleness and clarity. That’s what Lullababy SOS is all about.

Take the First Step Back to Calm

Whether you’re holding your baby for every nap, trapped in the feed-to-sleep cycle, constant contact naps, hourly wake-ups or simply unsure what to try next, I’m here. Not to fix you.

Not to judge you.

But to walk with you as you find your rhythm, your strength, and your peace.

👉 Book your free intro call

👉 Download one of our guides

👉 Let’s rebuild rest—with compassion, not control

Because parenting isn’t about getting it perfect.

It’s about showing up, learning together, and holding space for the messy middle.

And you’re doing a beautiful job—even if it doesn’t always feel like it.